12 November 2005

the other belongs to me...

The other, in so far as he is other, only exists for me in so far as I am open to him, in so far as he is a Thou. But I am only open to him in so far as I cease to form a circle with myself, inside which I somehow place the other, or rather his idea; for inside this circle, the other becomes the idea of the other, and the idea of the other is no longer the other qua other, but the other qua related to me…

Gabriel Marcel, Being and Having, 1949, p. 107

...does existence depend on the other?

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